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Then, all of a sudden — BAM — something happened. Synergy, in general, may be defined as two or more things working together to produce a kick-ass result not independently obtainable. This synergy has made my dating life crazy awesome. Well, at least what I would consider awesome. To go from not being able to get a date, to being able to attempt Dates in 1 Year is a big difference.
And it all started with my username. Read on…. First impressions are brutal. Girls take about 3 seconds to decide to check you out or to move on to the next guy. Your username is one of the first things a girl sees online. com — The username is right at the top. I know, I know. I surveyed 10 girls that use online dating and they all agreed. What girl in her right mind would want to date a guy with a username like this:.
Note: Bad usernames are typical. And yes, This is her real photo. They have the most ridiculous photos and names. Mike is a current student in the eDatingDoc Academy.
A normal guy getting into the dating scene. I helped him get that synergy into his online dating I was talking about earlier. We started by changing his photos, profile and email exchanges so they work together. He began getting great results. As an experiment, we saved his username for last, which as I mentioned before, along with your picture, is your first impression. Mike is a marine, so we included a great photo of him in uniform.
How can we tie being a Marine into his username in a way that women will find irresistible? A Marine is the modern day Knight, so what better name than MikeInShiningArmor?! Using the positive association girls have with finding their Knight In Shining Armor. Mike went from never getting a response online to totally filling up the Date Manager with phone numbers to dating beautiful women. Now that is what I mean by Synergy! A performer actor, singer or artist will often take on a cooler stage name because their real name is considered unattractive, boring, or difficult to spell or pronounce.
They also may choose a name to appeal to a specific audience or an unusual name to grab attention. A lot of creativity, time and money also goes into selecting the perfect name for a character in a movie to appeal to a certain audience. A few kick-ass character names are: Tyler Durden, Morpheus and Donnie Darko. Tyler Durden from Fight Club. What in the hell is that? It sounds like some prehistoric monster fish that evolved one long squirly bucktooth.
Who would want to eat that? Not me! Well not until some smart marketers decided to change the name to Chilean Seabass. Now that sounds tasty! THE ONLINE DATING USERNAME FORMULA The Username formula is a mix of 3 rules: 1. Appeals to Women 2. Evokes Positive Associations 3. Unique, clear and easy to remember.
Seriously, What girl will find that attractive? This would be a great name for a wrestler that 13 year old boys would find awesome but — for women? Something I see all the time is guys adding a bunch of numbers after their name. Like Mike What are you doing? C-3po and R2-D2 from Star Wars will love that username!!! What in the heck does this mean? Simply that your username should trigger a pleasant feeling for the girl.
This creates a connection between those pleasant feelings and YOU. To connect to these pleasant feelings, your username should be any combination of the following: Funny, Dorky, Tender, Subtly Romantic, Silly, Creative. The key here is moderation. A romantic cliché you can use is OnceUponaTime but change it to…. get ready for this…. Ok — Ok, whoever uses that, when you get your dream girl, you owe me big time! On the other side of the coin, be sure to stay away from usernames that connect to negative feelings or can in anyway be interpreted in a bad way.
Here are a few actual usernames I found online that project the wrong image. Some obvious and some not so obvious. FeelsAwesome: Is he talking about sex already?
IReallyDoExist: Does he have low self-esteem? SmallWood: Does this guy have a small penis? JohnVice: Does this guy have a vice like a drug problem? DemonWrath: Ummmm you can draw your conclusion DaGift2Womens: Yo Yo, will dis gangsta ask her on a date den pop some caps?
The last example DaGift2Womens takes us to my final tip to evoke positive associations. Always use properly spelled words in your username. You could come off like an uneducated dumbass or she may think the guy behind the profile has the maturity level of a 14 year old.
RUTha1 should be AreYouTheOne Use the correct spelling Are not R Use the correct spelling You not U Use the correct spelling One not 1. Using proper spelling and capitalization not only evokes positive associations as mentioned in Rule 2 but it also makes your username clear and easy to remember.
Tip: Some dating sites like OkCupid allow the use of dashes — in the username. This can also be a great option for separating words. Be my guest to email the guy and tell him his username sucks. When I first saw this username I thought it said something about murder! NOT a good impression. The word ur was used instead of the correct spelling your. Just by making those few adjustments you get —ImYourDreamGuy— which looks and sounds much better than whoever he was gonna murder —Imurdreamguy—.
This name still comes off a bit pompous but you see how properly using capitalization and spelling can make a name clear. A rhyme just sticks with us. Another way to create an appealing username is to use words with letters we rarely use and words with double letters etc.
Contrasting is something else to take into account when creating a memorable username. And the contrast depends on you. I helped Matt with his online dating.
He has a high quality dorky photo of himself. He used the dorky photo but used the contrasting username MaleSuperModel. This worked because of the funny contrast. Before you get started creating your own username, here are 50 keywords and 50 off-the-hook kick ass usernames I created, that you can use as your own or as a guide. Check them out. To help get your creativity flowing, answer the 10 questions listed below. Take out a piece of paper and create two columns or use the username worksheet on page 26 of the workbook in the free kit.
Place your answers in the first column. com Now that you have some keywords in your list, use www. com to get more ideas. Here is an example of some great words I found by looking up the synonyms of happy. Some quick usernames using these keywords:. Now start combining your keywords to form usernames. Write the combined keywords in column 2 of the worksheet, this is your username list.
Play some music and get to it! Now you will have several usernames that are downright awesome. But there will be a couple that girls find irresistible. Hmmm, how to find out which username is the best? Girls love helping with relationships. So after you create your list of usernames, email them to a few of your girl friends. Your new irresistible username is one part of the online dating puzzle. To create Online Dating Synergy you need to get all the parts working together.
Also follow me as I attempt to go on Dates in 1 year. Teaching Online Dating BadAssNess ever since gun-slinging was outlawed and losing my brass-knuckles in a game of poker. Thanks for taking the time to read the guide. I hope you get a lot out of it.
com www. Hey eDoc, I used your tips on creating a clever and catchy username. Thanks for the advice and inspiration! I THOUGHT I WAS A PRETTY SMART GUY, but THIS ONLINE DATING IS KILLING ME! THIS STUFF IS HARD.
My male friend was wondering why his dating profile was getting no hits this website does not show photos but rather matches people by similar interests, education, etc. I stumbled across your website by coincidence. I enjoyed it, your dead on!!
I sent a link to your website to him. Hi eDoc, I am 45 and just getting to on-line dating for the first time. Scared to death and excited all at once… I appreciate the simple logic that you provide as I agree that having a good username is a great opportunity to make a positive association.
I have been trying to learn a little about the process before I jump in with both feet so that I get off on the right foot. This is good candid tutorial to help with the first step. Not very useful to most of us. I will ask a photographer friend to take some profile pictures. I will also try emailing some of my girl friends and getting feedback on my username, profile, etc… Simple Useful Advice — Thank you.
My next step is to sort out what I am looking for in a girl and how I want to represent myself… My concern is that millions of people on these sights have been eDating their whole lives or at least have more experience at it than me.
Looking forward to it. Thaks again and good luck on your dates! You won the 2nd online dating coaching package. Just found this site last night. Really good material. Don't think about it; just write down whatever comes to mind:. You get the idea. Combine the words and adjust if necessary. Choose your favorite combination of words. I like DapperNinja and would use that as my username. The three steps above is a quick and easy way to create a dating profile username.
These steps do the job. The sad fact is terrible usernames outnumber good ones by a wide margin. If you are creative with your username, you'll stand out from the rest of the men on dating sites see below. Someone may have used the same username already, so you'll need to add numbers to it. Be sure to put the digits at the end of the username ; not the beginning. Which is more readable and stands out: DapperNinja or DapperNinja.
The first is easier to read and stands out more than staring your username with digits. Let's look at good usernames and bad ones. I found the examples below quickly. Yes, they're all real. Bad dating site usernames are a dime a dozen. It's the good profile usernames that are hard to locate. I apologize in advance if YOU are one of the people below. But seriously, take the hint and change your username immediately if this is you or if you have anything like them. A decent attempt at a username.
Not great but definitely not awful. Below are examples of bad usernames I quickly found. Terrible usernames like these are a dime a dozen. This username shows a lack of effort; it's random numbers and letters. Referencing where you live is a terrible idea for a username; "Murrieta, CA".
Never complain on your profile username; it makes you less attractive. This username is confusing; can't tell if this guy is expecting the reader to fill in the blanks or if he used random characters; either way, it's a bad username. This username is a combination of the San Diego area code and "04" for whatever reason; a terrible choice in a username. Women see right through this type of username - Don't use it. It's unwise to use your full name as your username on dating apps.
Don't underestimate your username on your dating profile. Most guys put little effort into their usernames, which is a mistake. Your username is important; it's one of the first things women see. Put a little time into your username. Get creative. You'll stand out on your dating site, and women may take notice.
Step 1. Choose a word that describes yourself. Step 2. Pick a word that's a noun a thing. Step 3. Combine both words. Don't think about it; just write down whatever comes to mind: seeker teacher roller-coaster surfer ninja You get the idea.
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A good one makes her want to know more about you, while a terrible one can instantly turn women off and send them running. Your username is your first impression. You want it to be a sneak preview into the rest of your profile.
You also want to get it right the first time. While you can change your Plenty Of Fish username, you'll need to pay for an upgraded membership first.
The trick is choosing a username that highlights an attractive trait. Research has shown that likeability stems from her subconscious initial impression of you, and on most dating sites your username is one of the first things she sees. If you want to date the most attractive women, you need a username worthy of her attention. Here are 6 tips for creating usernames for dating sites that work, plus 18 examples:. Studies have shown the best usernames for men seeking women begin with letters A-M.
They also convey a fun-loving personality and hint at intelligence or culture. The best usernames make her instantly curious. Women love talking about food - science has made it official. So why not whet her appetite with a delicious sounding username? Big businesses have a huge marketing budget. Why not put all their marketing research to personal use with a catchy, memorable, emotion-evoking username? However, adding random numbers to it just looks lame and uncreative.
Negativity has no place in your profile. Not in your username, not in your profile text, not anywhere. Not only is it a major turn off, but why are you taking up precious online real estate with a reason to not like you?
Sexual innuendos make terrible usernames. Not only do they make her shudder, they send her clicking on to the next guy with a quickness. Women are attracted to confident males , and have been since the dawn of time. If you want to meet the most attractive local women, your profile and messages need to stand out from the competition.
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